Living a slow life

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There is a solace in mastering the art of being content and satisfied in one’s life. Finding pleasure and satisfaction in simple things in one’s routine life – a day of reading, a good show, a stroll in the nearby public park, a visit to the temple, the joy of having prasad, or just vegetable shopping from the nearby vendor once in a while without ordering it via the 10 minute app. Or just cooking simple hearty meals at home for your loved ones.

“Never Settle” – this adage never rung true to me. Being ambitious is good, for those who want it – but being satisfied in the present too is a life hack. An essential life skill. There is always a need to slow down. I want to be able to afford a slow life. Money wise, yes but also mentally, emotionally. Slow down sometimes with my family. Have good food, from fresh produce. Grow a kitchen garden. Books. Or just be with my thoughts, daydreaming without my phone in reach. Is dwindling ambition to soar professionally is necessarily a bad thing? Though some days I want to strive for greater heights, but on other days I just want to be. I had read about this in some articles on motherhood. The rat race seems futile. Some decompress in a dance or musical practice and some delve into spirituality. To each his own instrument to de-stress.

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  1. Pradeep NairAugust 24, 2025 at 8:48 AM

    I fully agree with you. For various reasons, sometimes not in our control, we are all in a mad rat race. I often wonder where are we hurrying to? It is not how much we do or how far we go. What matters how well are we doing what we do.
    You have very rightly said: " ... being satisfied in the present too is a life hack". It is an important one.
    It's not success that leads to happiness. It is happiness that leads to success. And makes you happy? The little things all around us that give us contentment and joy, which are often so close to us that we take them for granted.
    (My latest post: Real-world lessons from younger folks)

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